Friends and Families.

By Matheba Paballo.

• You need to ask yourself a couple of times,what family and friends mean to you.Understand how their presence in your life affects you.The is nothing lovely to see than a person widely and happily smiling because of friendship.Learn how to be open and free around your family and friends.Love it's a very healthy and nice word to utter sometimes.It also shows to be a great impact when you share it with people close to your heart.Friends and Families are people to support you when you are down and sad.Somebody to lean on when you feel unstable,People to hold onto when you going deep into the hole.Yes,they will be times whereby you feel pressurized and neglected.Friends and families fight almost all the time,but when is time to reconcile the happiness cannot be beaten by anything.Adjust to ways whereby you can have a healthy relationship with your family and friends.Everybody needs people to console them when they are emotionally drained and their souls are dampered.Invest much time on working with your friends and families learn to understand them very well."Blood is thicker than water" yes that's what they say about family,and is indeed legit.But what about those genuine friendships that need even more greater foundation.Lets talk a little bit about friendship.As the youth of today we operate in much different ways than older and ancient people.Our grannies would say"A little bit of cup of tea and cookies would work" while on the other hand our granpas would say "Just a bit of farm talks and soccer matches with a Lil bit of gags".We as the youth of today we say guys and girls codes.Those codes lead and advices us to maintain friendships.We don't expose friends in friendships.We stay loyal and genuine with each other , if I may quote some modern slang language "We keep it hundred with our friends".Everything has to start somewhere,Do you know love at first sight?.That first minute a parent meet his or her new born baby after birth,Those little tears of joy here and there.And those times you meet your Bestfriend for the first time unaware that that's somebody you'd trust and cherish forever.We all want somebody we can pray with,somebody we can share naughty moments together.Nothing beats those Weekend family times ,where we strengthen our family bond.Acknowledge those memories and childhood pictures that granny stored into an old album.Have an acquaintance about the importance of having friends and families in your life.
  
  
  
• Every little thing matters in relationships.I believe that friends and families make up 80 % of the happiness we exprience in life.And nothing rips your heart like when they are far away and you cannot reach them.I believe in healthy and prosperous relationships.I guess they will be betrayals involved in all that,but you shouldn't be afraid to start again from the scratch.Loyalty is very rare,and it would take long for you to chase before you can pin it and say I've found loyalty.Friends usually have other friends and that break our hearts.Families choose whom to love and not to.But what if we believe in unity , sticking together listening and supporting each other.Lets choose happiness over everything.We may exprience a bit of overrated and toxic relationships here and there.But talking out one on one it's the best way to go.Lets love and not break relationships and friendships.But only cherish , respect and promote thier moods at all times because nonetheless love it's a beautiful place to be at all times.