Accommodating yourself before anything else.

By Matheba Paballo.

The most important ideal character to a person's personality must be the energy they keep.I believe we wouldn't have been able to feel the energy sorrounding somebody if it wasn't protected.Most people tend to lose themselves because they are too busy trying to accomodate families , friends or partners.I still don't get it till this day why would somebody go their way out to feel worthy and appreciated.

Vibes are not to be forced , loving yourself more it's a force.People get disappointed most of the time because they adapted how to put people before themselves.I honestly feel like everybody should stop sacrificing or rather compromising for people who wouldn't do the same for them.Somebody stops talking to you because they either don't like you anymore or you are just too much to accomodate.

Now remember we don't judge people for stopping the communication, you'd never know if they are also trying to accomodate their selves.It's not always about a person having pride , but it's about somebody doing what atleast seems fine with them. Don't take too much that's to be digested in the mouth you will choke.The minute you stop caring about who has got to say what , what who is doing with who and actually what everybody else it's up to now that's the minute maturity is kicking in.

Cutting of every single edge that makes you feel like you are going to fall it's compulsory and non-negotiable.Stand your ground and create your own space.Leave squads that push you in the wrong path , leave a friend who's always expecting more than they give and stop caring about who's not on your to do list.Work on yourself , that should be your priority and first to do.The generation has been too busy on fitting in and being cool , but no matter how lame they might think it is don't try to belong where you were never invited.

Accomodating yourself means 'you are having less worries about what anybody has got to think about you'.Everything has got advantages and disadvantages , but I'm pretty sure working on yourself will only bring advantages.The most attractive thing in a person should be the way they are able to mantain themselves without anybody holding their hand.Everybody should learn how to be fine with themselves.

If nobody it's ever ready to co-operate put it behind your back because there's no absolute use holding onto it.Sharing space with people who make you feel like they want to be in it must be a high.Funny how people would go over hills for people who'd never kick stones for them.Be fine with yourself and the rest of the picture , be fine with people no matter what is what.But the most important trait to your senses must be having an attitude that nobody can mess with.Set your yourself straight , love you and don't put your fate in somebody else's hands.

That good feeling you share it's what you should have let yourself experienced first and let the wheels turn.Live your truth and prohibit wasting your time or someone elses because it always ends sour on that note.You know what they say "you scratch my back , I scratch yours".